Be Known Group Guide

August 2024

  • To start off, take turns sharing one of your highs and one of your lows from the past week.
  • Consider the following statistics from David Brook’s book “How to Know a Person”: The percentage of Americans who say they have no close friends has quadrupled between 1990 and 2020. 54% of Americans say that no one knows them well. 36% of all Americans feel lonely most of the time, jumping to 61% of young adults and 51% of moms with kids at home.
  • What do you think about these statistics?
  • In general, what are the differences between social media/online friends and friends in real life?
  • The first skill Jeff talked about to help develop real life connection was to choose to show up. Read Acts 2:42-47. What stands out to you from this description of the early community of Jesus followers? In what ways did they show up?
  • What was the result of the actions in this passage?
  • What are some past and present examples of ways you have experiences the things described in Acts 2:42-47, either in our church as a whole or in a group?
  • As you reflect on this passage, what are some ways you feel led to show up more? With whom?
  • The second skill Jeff talked about to help develop real life connection was to choose to open up. Read Matthew 26:36-39. Who did Jesus open up to, and how did he model vulnerability for us?
  • What makes it hard to be authentic and vulnerable with people? With God?
  • Share a time when you were authentic and vulnerable. Who were you vulnerable with, and what was the outcome? Was it worth the risk?
  • Take some time to share prayer requests and pray for one another.

Going Deeper

  • During this series, we can focus on the spiritual practice of community just by meeting together in a group. To go a little further this week, consider taking this Emotional Health Assessment and sharing your insights at your next group meeting.
  • Verse to meditate on this week: Acts 2:42